She acknowledged that the idea
might be controversial, but stressed that she personally sees the advantages of
doing so.
Simi believes that couples would understand their significant
others if they live together [Instagram/Symplysimi]
Popular Nigerian singer, Simi
recently shared her perspective on marriage, saying that couples should
consider living together before tying the knot.
Speaking on the newest episode of the Tea with Tay podcast, the
singer emphasized the significance of understanding the various aspects of
a person's personality before committing to a lifelong partnership. She made
her stance whilst acknowledging that her opinion might not align with everyone.
"Maybe I shouldn’t share this opinion because I feel
like religious people might not agree with me. [But] I personally think that
people who want to get married should live together for a little bit before
they do that. Because I don’t think you really know someone that you’re going
to marry until you cohabit," Simi began.
Simi highlighted the importance of witnessing different
aspects of a partner's character that may not be evident in public settings.
She continued: "The way someone is when they are
outside in their best behavior is different from how they are when they are
cranky and they haven’t eaten or when they wake up in the morning or when they
are snoring."
Simi did, however, acknowledge the facts that people have
successfully married without cohabiting. According to the singer, living
together provides valuable insights into compatibility and helps individuals
make more informed decisions about the prospect of spending their lives
together.
“When you live with someone you know all the sides to them
that is when you really know if you can do forever with them. Millions of
people have gotten married without living together. But I personally think it’s
a good idea to cohabit before marriage," she added.
Simi clarified that cohabitation doesn't necessarily have to
be a lengthy period but suggested that even a brief time spent living together
can offer valuable insights.
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