Veteran Nollywood actor, Kanayo O. Kanayo, has shared
his perspective on why many women remain unmarried in their 30s.
He attributed it to the decisions they made in their
younger years, stating that many spent their 20s involved with married older
men while turning down potential suitors within their age group.
“Some girl will be in the university at 18, 19,
20, she starts dating a very rich guy, sometimes, very old too. Then what you
see along the line is that because the guy is very rich and probably married,
she refuses the advances of other younger people because the guy has either
gotten her a car and a house. So to her, she’s operating on a very high level,
he said
“From 22, she goes on to 24 and maybe even if she
quarrels with this guy, she gets the next guy. And before you know it, she
turns 25, 26 unmarried because she refuses the advances of younger prospective
husbands. She gets into 29, 30, by that time she had left the university and
men are no longer finding her that attractive.
“So she gets into 31, husband is not coming. And what
do you have? At 23, she’s a flex. At 28, she becomes a prayer point. After 33,
she’s declared a state of emergency. Because husbands will not come at that
level of 33 years. Some of them get to 35 unmarried. And they still think that
they are having fun. They are not having fun. They are now in a state of
emergency praying that God brings anyone.”
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